Happy, harmonious families

Happy, harmonious families 18. Juli 2019

2016_06_14 Glückliche harmonische FamilienV6    Computer supported translation from german language

Years ago it was said that every third marriage would be divorced. By now it's supposed to be almost every second. 

Anyone who knows and feels the hardships and suffering of those affected and their children understands that it is very important to me to uncover an unfortunately unknown cause. In addition to the divorces, there are still many marriages and families where people no longer talk to each other. In the SRF broadcast "Schweiz aktuell" from 12.7.18 (from the 22nd minute) is reported that in Zurich the "child and adolescent psychiatry" announced that the suicidal life crises of teenagers have increased by 40% to 649 cases. What an immense suffering, distress and despair hiding behind such numbers! Of course, next to the divorces come other crises, which young people have to deal with. Mental and physical ailments can also be the result of the cause described below. 

Please also read my article "Der Grösste Massenmord aller Zeiten", where I also describe the so-called "collateral damage" (side effects) of these murders. Please also read my article "The Greatest Mass Murder of All Time", in which I also describe the so-called "collateral damage" (side effects) of these suicides. 

Now to the mentioned cause:
One "flesh," as our Creator teaches us.
Mark 10/7  For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, /8 and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one flesh. 9 Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate. Unfortunately, we are flooded every day with destructive information and images that want to destroy these happiness. A German dirty magazine seduces even children to abuse their sexuality contrary to the creation order. The consequences in our society are devastating.

Through the sexual union of man and woman, the two become "one flesh," as the Bible describes it. I think that means one being, and it  hardly means like one piece of meat. it is intended only for one man and one woman, according to the creative will of God. I assume that through sexual union, traits and qualities can enter into each other's human beings, and never can be "erased" again. So, if in a marriage or partnership, such "extraneous" influences from previous relationships exist, they act as disruptive factors and disturb the harmony of the two or the whole affected family. The word "flesh" is also used in the Bible as part of the ancient nature of the believing man. This "flesh (essence)" rebels against the spirit, of the born-again believer. Thus, the two united humans not only have to fight against their own nature, but in addition to one (or even more) from previous connections, which makes this fight even much more difficult and harder.

What does the unbelieving world teach us?
Bevor you tie yourself forever, you have to check, that you fit together.. This is understood, that you have to find out in bed, that you fit each other. Poeple in love, are not told about the fact that you bind each other for all eternity without having checked it beforehand is concealed. The decisive factor is that one man and one woman should be bound for ever and never one or more further connections are allowed to join it. Certainly a marriage before the melting of the two makes sense, in order to protect them from wanting to break out of this connection. But even if the sexual union took place before the official marriage, this protection should be claimed, albeit belatedly, as quickly as possible. If partners have a sexual connection and refuse to marry, the only real reason muss be to keep a back door open, no matter how many other reasons are claimed. However, this "Plan B" is a destructive poison. It makes a permanently harmonious partnership impossible. In every relationship between people, there are disagreements and problems. When this poison is implanted it destroys the will to solve the problems - the back door is still open, at least a crack.

Yes, falling in love can cover many problems at first. A careful examination until amour is replaced by love is to be advised. Only when this test passed and the appropriate maturity is reached, an eternal connection (sexual union) may be established - "until death separates us".
The Bible, the Word of God, shows with many examples that people merge in sexual union. It also shows that this union is only allowed for one man and one woman.

1.Corintians 6/15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! 16 Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.

 5. Mos. 24/ 1 If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house, 2 and if after she leaves his house she becomes the wife of another man, 3 and her second husband dislikes her and writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house, or if he dies, 4 then her first husband, who divorced her, is not allowed to marry her again after she has been defiled. That would be detestable in the eyes of the Lord. 

However, the Prince of Darkness  (Satan) teaches as always the opposite of God's guidance and guardrails. You are free to respect them or not. Unfortunately, the prince does not take over the damage. We see these damages daily in our families. This prince of Darknes uses a variety of methods, including: The most effective way to approach people is probably to say, "I do not exist, do not believe in such an ancient myth. Those who are not blinded, however, must perceive the fraudulent cruel work of Satan in the world and in the families. But just as we can recognize God's wonderful action. 

Another trick is to keep people on their toes "to prevent them to think about it. And if you have time, you can fill that time with stuffy, dirty to satanic music. Even the so-called social media like Facebook, Twitter, WhatsApp, etc. are a very efficient way to fritter away the time God has given us.

Happy families
Oh, how is my heart always pleased when I may witness the affection of the children to their parents and vice versa. For me it is an image of the love of our Creator to us humans and vice versa. How is my heart pleased when I see married couples whose affection for each other persists even after falling in love. But I also suffer when I have to see the aggression and disharmony in the faces and eyes of people.

May God grant that through these lines the way to much love among men and to God is leveled, and much evil is already prevented in advance, because:

  • Many People align themselves to the plan of their Creator, instead of lustfully living the desires of Satan.
  • Damaged relationships become healthy and harmonious because those affected confess their sins, repent, and no longer sin. What this means in their case I can not and will not decide. Ask God, read the Bible, let the Holy Spirit guide you - but only if you are willing to respect and obey the answer.

 Cluelessness - Misbehavior – Sin

  • Due to cluelessness, weakness or ignorance, a sexual relationship is takes place - A bond for eternity is entered.
  • Relationship problems arise instead of resolving them, the couple wants to dissolve the eternal bond.
  • Then the couple commits the sin to enter the next sexual relationship.

I wish you had never gone that far, never committed that sin and would never commit this sin all your live. If you are already on this path, do not go one step further! Otherwise you'll do the worst worse. Never try to dissolve a relationship, that is like an alloy. Work hard, to solve the problems. They are here to let you mature - within this relation.



Matthew 16/18   Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

In Deuteronomy 24 / we also read that reconciliation is no longer permitted if one of the partners had a different relationship in the meantime. Both are fornication in any case. I'm convinced the same goes for people who have already bonded, even though they have never officially married - They are not allowed to enter into a further sexual connection. 

Can not a man-made connection be broken up?

Matthew 19/6  (Mark 10/9)  So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.

You may also have to translate "... can not be divorced from humans. Anyway, God is all-powerful, he can do it? The question is at most, if he wants to do that. True, God is almighty, but he can not do absurd things. For example, he can not draw a circle with three corners and edges, otherwise it is no longer a circle. He can not annul a connection made for all eternity because he would contradict his own plan.

 Another example

At the secret, nocturnal walk to adultery, a man is caught by the train. He survives, but loses a leg. This can bring him to insight, so that he repents of his sin and no longer commits. Can God now regrow this leg? In that case, I would answer yes. But would he do it? From now on, this man will have to live an arduous life with a prosthesis instead of his leg. It will be the same when people harm harmony in their partnership. If they repent and do real repentance, God will forgive them. The burden of disturbing factors in their harmony, they will have to endure for the rest of their lives. Nevertheless, suppose God removed this unwanted "essence" from a partnership. If the two have been hurt each other for years by their disharmony, it is a difficult, painstaking and probably long way until such injuries brought to light, cleared, healed and scarred.

How much suffering and pain could be avoided
if all churches proclaimed God's Word in purity and truth. Instead, they even name the ungodly way well, by remarrying divorced ones. By doing so, other couple, who may be in crisis, are even encouraged to choose this cruel solution as a way out of their crisis. This destroys even the smallest remaining will to solve a crisis. Did Jesus have to say it more clearly than Matth. 19/9. I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery. Adultery is often equated with fornication and idolatry in the Bible and is the most abominable to God. The consequences for the people in question are devastating. 

 In the Christmas story we read the following:

Matth.1 / 24 24 Joseph woke up. He did what the angel of the Lord commanded him to do. He took Mary home as his wife. 25 But he did not make love to her until after she gave birth to a son. 

Jesus was born of a virgin. As long as he grew up in the body of his pure mother (without a second being), God did not allow another being to unite with the mother, and thus probably also with the child.

Despite everything, once again!
How far you have always gone this wrong way, I can give you courage. You still have time to repent.

1. John 1/9 But God is faithful and fair. If we admit that we have sinned, he will forgive us our sins. He will forgive every wrong thing we have done. He will make us pure. 10 If we say we have not sinned, we are calling God a liar. His word has no place in our lives.

I even assume that he also stands by in carrying the self-inflicted burden. If we allow his light to illuminate the tricky situation, we will also find ways out. Jesus Christ is also called a healer. He wants to heal relationships, not destroy them. This applies both to relationships among people, as well as the relationship with him. 

I never want to judge others with these lines. I am not entitled to do so because I myself have damaged my life and that of our descendants in this most cruel way. But just because I experienced the extent of the damage in my own life, it is my desire to show you, who reads these lines, how tragic it is if we disregard the instructions of our Creator. But because I have experienced the extent of the damage in my own life, it is my desire to show you who reads these lines, how tragic it is if we disregard the instructions of our Creator.

The grace of God is immeasurable, unimaginable
I know so many families in which this damage has been done and it goes on and on, to cause further damage. Her life seems to be "hell on earth" 
I am so glad to know families who carry these damages, but who, in faithful devotion to Jesus Christ, can always repent and be forgiven for temporary tensions and disharmony.
Although people impose themselves on such burdens, this is never in the will of God. 

How great is the grace of God, that he accepts us humans despite the damage done and accepts us over and over again..